Theology in Five

Jesus’ Care for His Mother

The account of Jesus’ crucifixion is filled with poignant moments and deeply meaningful words. One such moment was when Jesus, hanging on the cross, looked at his mother and the disciple he loved standing near her. He said, “Woman, behold your son,” (John 19:26). At first glance, this statement may seem simple, but it carries a profound significance in understanding Jesus’ concern for his loved ones and the broader implications for the Christian community.

A New Relationship

Jesus’ words were not merely casual remarks; they were intended to establish a new relationship. In saying “Woman, behold your son,” he was entrusting Mary, his mother, into the disciple John’s care, and vice versa. Jesus, deeply aware that he was about to die, was ensuring his mother would be looked after in his absence.

Love and Compassion on Display

This act of entrustment highlights Jesus’ immense love and concern for his mother. Despite his agony on the cross, Jesus took the time to ensure his mother would be cared for, showing his unfailing love and care. Beyond this, the exchange underscores the importance of love, compassion, and mutual care within the Christian community. Jesus’ followers are thus called to support and look after one another in times of need, as modeled by Jesus himself.

Discussion Questions

1. How does Jesus’ care for his mother, even in his moment of extreme suffering, speak to his character and love for humanity?
2. How can this act of Jesus entrusting his mother to John inspire and guide the Christian community’s commitment to mutual care and support?
3. In what ways can this understanding of Jesus’ words deepen our approach to caring for others within our own communities and families?

Further Reading

1. Brown, Raymond. “The Death of the Messiah.” Doubleday, 1994. [Raymond Brown’s work is a comprehensive exploration of the passion narratives in the four Gospels. It gives an in-depth look at Jesus’ words on the cross and their implications.]
2. Köstenberger, Andreas J., and Justin Taylor. “The Final Days of Jesus: The Most Important Week of the Most Important Person Who Ever Lived.” Crossway, 2014. [This book provides a detailed account of Jesus’ last week, including his crucifixion and words on the cross.]
3. Witherington III, Ben. “John’s Wisdom: A Commentary on the Fourth Gospel.” Westminster John Knox Press, 1995. [This commentary provides a thorough exploration of the Gospel of John, providing greater insights into Jesus’ words to his mother and the beloved disciple.]